update

my my my it's been a long time. I'm such a terrible blogger! that's ok, no one but me reads this anyway...
updates abound, my friend- it has recently been brought to my attention that I'm a lousy cook. ~sigh~ this upset me, considering my newly 15 year old son was the one to tell me this. He's probably right, however, as I really hate cooking. Rest assured I'll strive to keep up my low standards :)

On another note- I have now experienced the other side of the tracks, meaning I've finally hung out in gay bars with my newly discovered gay friend.

SO. MUCH. FUN. And what better people to hang out with- they love Duran Duran as much as I do! LOL

I even got complimented on my ass by 2 gay men, and THEY KNOW. :)

I have to say, however, that this is not something I enjoy doing with my better half and I don't know why...he's fun, he's hip, he's with-it...he even watches 'the gay shows' (as he refers to them) with me. I think I like to think of it as 'girls night out', not 'drag your hubby to the lesbian bar' night... Now the dilemma is can I continue to hang out with the gays and fit in, being straight and all? Well, not TECHNICALLY straight- I have had leanings for a long time, and I would probably date a woman if I wasn't married with 3 kids, but this is the path I've chosen. I know that the GLBT community as a whole tends NOT to trust those who refer to themselves as bi, but maybe I'm a special case? who knows... I'm still enjoying myself too much to care.